Marc Abrahams: Laugh… then Think

This book is a memoir, manifesto, and handbook that outlines Loretta Ross's philosophy of 'calling in' as a more effective and compassionate approach to addressing conflicts and making social change. Ross shares her personal story, including her work at the Washington, DC Rape Crisis Center and her interactions with a man in prison who wanted to learn how to stop being a rapist. She argues that calling people in, rather than calling them out, involves holding them accountable with love and respect, focusing on shared values over punishment. The book provides practical advice on how to apply this approach in various settings, such as the workplace, college campuses, and personal relationships.

In 'Don't Shoot the Dog,' Karen Pryor explains the underlying principles of behavioral training and how these can be applied to various common situations. The book covers topics such as reinforcement, shaping, and stimulus control, and provides eight methods for ending undesirable behavior. Pryor emphasizes the use of positive reinforcement, illustrating its effectiveness through examples involving animals like dolphins, dogs, and cats, as well as human behavior. The book is known for its clear and entertaining explanation, making it accessible to a broad audience and offering practical advice on training without the use of force, punishment, or guilt trips.