Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel I Think I Married the Wrong Person
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Apr 15, 2024 
A couple grapples with their marital challenges, seeking guidance from Esther Perel, a renowned psychotherapist known for her work on relationships. They uncover how anger stems from feelings of devaluation and explore communication barriers that hinder connection. Esther helps them recognize ingrained patterns that protect them but also keep them stuck. Their conversation delves into emotional dynamics, the impact of upbringing on relationship struggles, and the critical need for empathy and understanding to break the cycle of frustration.
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The Presenting Issue
- The wife questioned her marriage due to ongoing issues, particularly her anger.
- The husband's main concern was her temper, especially yelling in front of their daughter.
Anger Masks Hurt
- Esther Perel points out that anger often masks hurt and past trauma.
- The wife's anger might stem from feeling devalued, mirroring her father's treatment.
Physical Response to Emotions
- Esther Perel suggests focusing on physical responses to emotions.
- She asks the husband what his body wants to do when his wife shares difficult experiences.