Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel Esther Calling - To Forgive My Ex-Husband I Need to Forgive Myself First
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Mar 31, 2025 A young divorcée grapples with anger and frustration as she navigates co-parenting with her ex-husband. They discuss the emotional challenges stemming from past traumas and the intricacies of communication that strain their relationship. Self-forgiveness emerges as a critical theme in healing and fostering healthier connections. The conversation delves into the cycle of blame and personal responsibility, emphasizing the need for reflection to break negative patterns. Ultimately, it's about evolving communication to support their children's well-being.
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Overlapping Relationships
- The caller's ex-husband started a serious relationship the same week they decided to divorce.
- He even lived with the caller for six months while dating his new partner.
Troubled Marriage
- The caller clarifies that their marriage was already struggling before the divorce.
- She gave her ex-husband permission to be intimate with others, thinking it would save their marriage.
Parallel Parenting
- Co-parenting isn't the right term for their situation; they practice parallel parenting.
- Communication is limited to logistical necessities, with excessive detail considered interfering.