MFP 355: Making Your Marriage #1

Summary

In this re-release of Episode MFP191, we open up about one of the biggest challenges every couple faces—finding time for each other in the midst of busy family life. After 31 years of marriage, we've learned that love doesn't just grow on its own; it takes intention and effort because although our marriages are always Important, they are rarely Urgent. In this episode, we share our own stories, some laughs, and practical ways to stay connected—whether through daily check-ins, regular date nights, or an occasional weekend away. We also talk about how to make this happen and what to do when you are together to use your time well. When we invest time in our marriage, our whole family benefits. So take a moment, grab your spouse, and listen with us. Let's strengthen our marriages together—because your relationship is worth every minute.

Key Takeaways

• Marriage is never Urgent, but it is always Important. That means you have to intentionally take time for your spouse

• Marriage is good for people and their mental, emotional, and even physical health.

• We need to give our spouse our time - daily connections, date nights, and extended time away.

• Lack of time together leads to decreased "love tank". A full "love tank" smooths out the rough spots in marriage and makes it easier to ignore the little things.

• You have to be together without the children to renew your marriage and make strong the "couple love" between you which is essential for them.

• You need a community around you to give inspiration and support for your marriage.

• Make boundaries and goals for your time together. Use it wisely!

Couple Discussion Questions

• When is our daily connection and regular date night?

• What is the best way for us to spend that time together?