The Hidden Cost of Being Fake and How to Stop
October 29, 2025 | Episode 5213
Host: Scott Smith
Episode Description
Ever feel like you're not being yourself?
Like you're putting on a show for everyone around you?
Scott gets it. He gets in trouble for being himself all the time. But here's the thing—being fake costs you way
more than being real ever will.
In this episode, Scott breaks down the hidden price you pay when you're not authentic. He introduces
motivational awareness—understanding what actually fires you up instead of forcing yourself to do things that
drain you. You'll discover why everything in your life comes down to just two things: people and money. And
Scott shares his daily awareness filter that helps you catch yourself before you veer off course.
Stop pretending. Start paying attention. Here's how.
Featured Story
You know when you say you're going to do something and then... you don't?
Scott does this all the time. He'll get an idea, tell everyone about it, then just sits on his butt. Doesn't start. Doesn't move forward.
For years, he thought something was wrong with him.
Then he figured it out. He won't start anything unless he's actually motivated to do it. If he's not moving toward what he said he wanted, that tells him something. Either he doesn't really want to do it, or something about the process feels wrong.
Now it's a rule. If the idea doesn't fire him up enough to get him moving, he scratches it.
Simple as that.
The problem? He sometimes opens his mouth and tells people first. Then they ask, "Why didn't you do it?"
Because I didn't want to. Motivational awareness.
Important Points
Why forcing yourself to do things you're not motivated to do keeps you stuck in a cycle of starting and stopping.
The reality that everything in your life—good and bad—comes from just two sources: people and money. Including you.
How building a daily awareness filter catches those moments when you're being fake before they derail your entire week.
Why saying yes to things you're not fired up about is the fastest way to lose touch with who you actually are.
Memorable Quotes
"I get in so much trouble for being myself. I really freaking do."
"If I can't get myself moving, it's just not firing me up."
"Everything, good, everything bad, everything comes from people and money."
"Nobody else is responsible for your health. You are."
Scott's Three-Step Approach
1. Build motivational awareness by noticing what drives you. Pay attention to what fires you up naturally.
If you're not moving toward something you said you wanted, that's data. You either don't really want it or something about the process is wrong. Stop forcing it.
2. Accept that people and money control everything in your life. Every opportunity, every obstacle, every win, every loss—it all comes from people (including you) and money (including yours). When you're stuck or unhappy, look at these two things first.
3. Activate your daily awareness filter to catch yourself being fake. Ask yourself the same questions every day. Track what you're actually doing versus what you said you'd do. Notice the gaps. That's where the truth lives about who you really are.
Chapters
00:15 The Hidden Cost of Being Fake
03:45 What Motivational Awareness Actually Means
06:27 Why Everything Comes Down to People and Money
08:53 The Daily Awareness Filter That Changes Everything
10:50 What's Next and Tomorrow's Show
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