Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

Mean Kids

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Feb 18, 2025
A mother struggles with her 4-year-old son's sudden unkind behavior, leaving her heartbroken and confused. The impact of a new sibling and possible bullying at school are explored as key influences. Practical strategies are discussed to navigate these challenges, emphasizing the importance of emotional safety and nurturing relationships. The conversation highlights the critical role of adult supervision in peer interactions and the need for authentic emotional connections to support children's development.
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ANECDOTE

Boy's Behavioral Changes

  • A 4-year-old boy, usually sweet and kind, displays unsettling behaviors like hitting, kicking, and using hurtful language.
  • His mother suspects that his sister's language development and conflict with classmates, especially one named Sid, contribute to these changes.
INSIGHT

Offloading Feelings

  • Children offload challenging feelings and experiences through behavior.
  • This boy's sensitivity and recent family changes make him vulnerable to negative influences.
ADVICE

Responding to Offloading

  • View challenging behaviors as offloading, not a crisis.
  • Seek more supervision at school to reduce exposure to negative influences.
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