64. Rewards, Consequences, and Bribing

Alfie Kohn's "Punished by Rewards" critically examines the widespread use of rewards and punishments in various settings, including education and the workplace. Kohn argues that these systems, while seemingly effective in the short term, often undermine intrinsic motivation and lead to negative long-term consequences. He explores the psychological mechanisms behind this phenomenon, demonstrating how rewards can decrease interest in activities and how punishments can foster resentment and anxiety. The book offers a compelling case for fostering intrinsic motivation through autonomy, mastery, and purpose. Kohn's work has significantly influenced educational practices and parenting styles, advocating for more humane and effective approaches to motivation.

This book provides a straightforward, parent-tested method for potty training. Jamie Glowacki's six-step process has been successful for tens of thousands of families. The guide covers topics such as determining readiness, avoiding power struggles, dealing with regressions, and involving daycare providers. It also includes troubleshooting suggestions and advice on handling special circumstances. The book is known for its clear, non-judgmental approach and its ability to empower parents to take on the task of potty training with confidence.

Jamie Glowacki's "Oh Crap, I Have a Toddler" offers practical advice and support for parents navigating the challenges of toddlerhood. It addresses common issues such as sleep, tantrums, and mealtimes, providing evidence-based strategies for positive parenting. The book emphasizes building a strong parent-child relationship through connection and understanding. It encourages parents to embrace the unique personality of their child while setting healthy boundaries. Glowacki's relatable style and empathetic approach make this book a valuable resource for parents seeking guidance during this demanding yet rewarding stage of child development.