Author Hal Hershfield discusses the importance of caring for our future selves and making sacrifices now for an easier future. Topics include introducing children to music and movies, understanding our future selves, temptation bundling, finding balance, book recommendations, note taking tips, and helpful apps.
Building a strong connection with our future selves can lead to better decision-making and positive outcomes.
It is important to create a positive and meaningful narrative around the end of life and rethink our relationship with death.
Deep dives
Understanding the Future Self
The podcast episode explores the concept of our future selves and our relationship with them. It highlights the complexity of defining our future selves and the tendency to view them as strangers. The importance of fostering a strong connection with our future selves is emphasized, as it can lead to better decision-making and positive outcomes. The episode also delves into the challenges of making decisions in the present and the tendency to focus on the present moment due to its certainty. It suggests ways to make the future self feel closer, such as engaging in conversation exercises and employing commitment devices.
Rethinking the End and Death
The episode explores society's perspective on death and the need to rethink our relationship with the end. It discusses the discomfort and avoidance associated with contemplating our own mortality. The importance of considering our future preferences and maintaining a strong connection with our future selves is highlighted. The podcast mentions the work of BJ Miller, a palliative care doctor, who encourages a shift in how we perceive and plan for the end. It emphasizes the value of creating a positive and meaningful narrative around the end of life.
Balancing Present Sacrifices and Enjoyment
The episode addresses the balance between present sacrifices and present enjoyment. It emphasizes the need to find a mix between making sacrifices for future wellbeing and experiencing pleasure in the present moment. The importance of creating vivid and concrete future self-images is discussed as a way to make sacrifices in the present more manageable. The concept of temptation bundling, introduced by Katie Moteman, is mentioned as a strategy to combine present enjoyment with productive activities. The episode also explores the use of commitment devices to ensure desired future outcomes.
Improving Note Taking and Knowledge Capture
In response to the host's question, the guest shares his insights on note taking and knowledge capture. He discusses the benefits of using tools like Evernote to capture and organize ideas, thoughts, and information. The guest emphasizes the importance of categorizing notes effectively and breaking down complex topics into smaller, more manageable chunks. He highlights the value of clarity and organization in note taking, particularly when conducting research or writing a book. The guest recommends exploring different note-taking approaches and finding what works best for individual needs.
Today’s feature book is one that I can’t wait to read with others. Yes, I’ve read it myself, but I want to talk about with other people and share insights ASAP. That’s when you know you’ve stumbled across a great book. And that book is Your Future Self: How to Make Tomorrow Better Today, and […]