U Up? Too Soon to Reveal Feelings?
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Jul 25, 2025 Navigating dating in your 40s offers advantages like clarity and faster exits from the wrong relationships. A listener shares a wild first-date horror story involving a sleepwalking mishap, igniting discussions on dating boundaries. Jared and Jordana debate whether bedwetting is a dealbreaker or just a funny anecdote. They also talk about when to reveal commitment intentions and emphasize the importance of being direct as you mature. It's a mix of modern dating chaos and practical advice!
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Holiday Party Mattress Disaster
- A man the listener met at a holiday party got very drunk, stripped naked, sleepwalked and peed the mattress after passing out.
- The listener found the soaked mattress and later requested $500 on Venmo to cover damages.
Apology Tone Reveals Accountability
- How someone responds after a mistake reveals whether they truly own their behavior.
- Minimizing with “I didn't think I was that drunk” signals weaker accountability and raises concerns.
Be Direct After A Bad First Impression
- If you don't want to continue after a bad first impression, be direct and clear in your communication.
- Saying you appreciated the gesture but don't see it going further saves time and reduces ambiguity.