The Follow-Up: What Makes a Marriage Work

In this honest and personal episode, I’m joined by my husband, Gaurav, as we open up about what makes our marriage work—especially through the chaos of parenting, career shifts, and everyday life.

We talk about:

• The power of balancing each other’s strengths and weaknesses

• How we’ve navigated trauma, including our son's birth and postpartum period

• Our nightly “State of the Union” check-ins—and why they’ve changed our relationship

• What we’ve learned about love languages, communication styles, and unmet expectations

• How we’ve moved from trying to “fix” each other to simply understanding and growing together

Marriage isn't always picture-perfect—and that’s exactly why these kinds of conversations matter. Whether you're partnered, married, or navigating love while raising kids, this episode offers a real-world look at building connection, even in the messy moments.

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