

A Man's Guide To The Inner Critic
32 snips Mar 28, 2024
Exploring the origins of harsh inner critics in men, addressing neglect, trauma, and dark motivations. Strategies for setting boundaries, repurposing the inner critic, and building self-validation and gratitude. Learn to shift negative self-talk towards self-compassion and appreciation for personal growth and inner peace.
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Connor's Harsh Inner Critic Story
- Connor Beaton shared his experience with a brutal inner critic he had as a young man.
- Writing and reading it aloud revealed how abusively he talked to himself daily.
Inner Critic Is Learned Behavior
- The inner critic is often learned from extremely critical parents.
- This legacy of criticism shapes how men view their identity, worth, and value.
Neglect Fuels Hostile Self-Talk
- Neglect and abandonment can create a hostile internal dialogue in a child.
- Kids personalize lack of attention as a defect in themselves, shaping a toxic inner critic.