Get Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell

198: Q&A - Erotic literature, overweight husband, discussing trying new things, and wooing your spouse

Aug 2, 2024

Listeners dive into the complexities of intimacy, tackling real-life marital questions. A husband grapples with his wife's perceived lack of interest in sex. There's a meaningful discussion on the role of erotic literature in Christian marriages. The struggle for novelty and exploration in the bedroom is examined, along with the impact of health on attraction. Tips for romantic gestures to reignite passion and communication strategies to express desires are shared, all aimed at enhancing marital intimacy.

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Effective communication and mutual understanding are crucial for addressing differences in sexual desire and enhancing marital intimacy.

Exploring erotic literature with openness can ignite passion in a relationship, but requires careful discussion of values and comfort levels.

Deep dives

The Transformative Power of Intimacy

Building an intimate marriage not only enhances the relationship but also contributes to personal growth and character refinement. A strong sexual connection is linked to improved brain function, encouraging neuroplasticity that facilitates learning and emotional well-being. This intimacy paves the way for deeper physical, emotional, and spiritual bonds between partners, resulting in a fulfilling partnership. Good sex is not only pleasurable but also acts as a powerful means for couples to enrich their lives and strengthen their bond.

Intro

6min

Navigating Intimacy and Communication in Marriage

6min

Exploring the Nuances of Erotic Literature in Marriage

4min

Navigating Intimacy and Desire

17min

Enhancing Intimacy Through Romantic Gestures and Confidence

7min

I get so many questions through the anonymous question form on my website, so it's time to answer some more. We address these topics today:

A husband doesn't feel like his wife values sex and intimacy in their marriage
Spouses wondering if erotic literature has a place in a Christian marriage
A husband wanting more novelty in a sexual relationship, but don't know how to talk about it
A wife feeling turned off by an overweight husband
A spouse unwilling to try new things in the bedroom
A wife wanting ideas to woo her husband

These are real questions on the hearts of many of you listeners, and I am humbled that you would trust me with your most perplexing questions relating to sexual intimacy in your marriage. I'm on a mission to help you have the very best sexual and intimate marriage possible. And I hope that the discussion today spurs deeper conversations within you and your marriage.

If you have a question you'd like to submit anonymously for me to address in a future podcast episode, fill out the form here, and that comes straight to me.

**Episode 200 is coming up and I can't wait. You don't want to miss it.

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Resources:

Episode 194: “Is this ok for us to do?” Seeking God’s Direction In Your Sex Life

Get Your Marriage On Program

Intimately Us App

FREE TRAINING: How to Become One: Overcoming obstacles to intimacy and significantly improving sex and connection in your marriage, in 90 days or less

Couples Retreat in St. George, UT, October 10-13

Retreat testimonial videos

You can find links to all these and more at our website: getyourmarriageon.com