Happier with Gretchen Rubin

More Happier: The Joy of Giving Away Toys, the Pleasure of Parasocial Relationships & TV Tourism

Oct 4, 2025
Discover the liberating joy of decluttering as hosts discuss the energy gained from giving away toys. They delve into the intriguing world of parasocial relationships, revealing the emotional comfort they provide. The phenomenon of TV tourism is explored, sparking excitement about visiting real locations from beloved shows. Gretchen shares her newsletter's role in spreading happiness and touches on the joy of small hobbies and playful maintenance. Tune in for a delightful mix of insights and feel-good moments!
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ANECDOTE

Clearing Toys In Layers

  • Elizabeth Craft describes clearing her son Jack's toys by giving them to children she knows and feeling happier with the space gained.
  • She keeps a few sentimental items like a Thomas the Train set while decluttering in layers to manage emotion.
ADVICE

Use The Need-Use-Love Test

  • Gretchen Rubin suggests testing items by asking: do we need it, use it, or love it to decide what to keep.
  • She keeps a few characteristic examples of small items to preserve memory without clutter.
INSIGHT

Giving Eases Attachment

  • Gretchen says giving items to someone who will use them reduces emotional stickiness and makes it easier to let go.
  • The act of donation can turn attachment into joy by imagining new appreciation for the items.
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