

128: Why Men REALLY Pull Away—The Truth No One Tells You with Connell Barrett
31 snips Mar 12, 2025
Connell Barrett, a men’s dating coach and author, shares his insights on why men pull away in dating. He discusses the crucial role of vulnerability and authenticity, revealing how societal expectations shape male emotions. Connell emphasizes the importance of initiating conversations and overcoming fears of rejection. He also dives into the complexities of intimacy, the friend zone, and strategies for creating appealing online dating profiles. His advice aims to help listeners break barriers and foster deeper connections.
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Karaoke Opener
- Connell Barrett coached a client, Ken, to approach a woman using a karaoke opener.
- Despite Ken's initial insecurity, the approach worked, proving the power of focusing on connection.
Intimacy Timing
- The timing of intimacy is subjective and depends on individual preferences.
- Don't follow strict rules about when to have sex; trust your comfort level and your partner's intentions.
Mismatched Motivators
- Men and women often prioritize different things in dating.
- Men often seek worthiness early on, while women look for connection, leading to mismatched expectations.