
HealthyGamerGG The Pain That's Deeper Than Depression
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Jan 4, 2026 Dr. K delves into the concept of the 'deep hurt'—a persistent pain that can linger even when life seems fine. He discusses how healing can sometimes magnify this ache, making it more pronounced. Possible sources of this pain range from early trauma and epigenetic inheritance to spiritual insights like karma. Dr. K introduces the Buddhist idea of bodhicitta, exploring how inner peace can lead to greater empathy and purpose. Ultimately, he suggests that embracing this deep hurt can inspire creativity and a desire to alleviate the suffering of others.
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Persistent Deep Hurt Below Surface Emotions
- The "deep hurt" is a persistent, dense ache that can remain even when life objectively improves.
- It sits far beneath surface emotions and often resists standard psychiatric healing.
BPD Patient: Emptiness To Lifelong Ache
- Dr. K describes a borderline patient who improved clinically but shifted from emptiness to a persistent deep suffering.
- The patient's grandfather framed it as a lifelong ache that "doesn't get better."
Oomph Gives Pain Depth And Compassion
- The deep hurt carries unusual intensity and 'oomph' that adds depth and compassion to experience.
- This intensity can feel meaningful and enhance creativity despite being painful.
