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Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel
Esther Calling - Part of Me Wants to Cheat Part Two
Jan 25, 2024
This episode explores the aftermath of a traumatic experience, the struggles with negative thoughts and temptation in a relationship, the concept of trauma reenactment and desire to cheat for power, the consequences of not questioning negative thoughts leading to shame and hiddenness, and the challenges of forgiveness when there is no remorse.
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- Trauma reenactment can manifest as intrusive thoughts and affect one's current relationships, requiring open communication and understanding to heal.
- Anger can be repurposed as a positive force for sexual assault survivors, fighting against shame and hiddenness, and empowering them to reclaim control and pleasure in life.
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Challenging the Hiddenness of Trauma
The podcast episode explores the concept of trauma reenactment and how it relates to the experience of sexual assault. The guest shares how her intrusive thoughts, often referred to as the 'evil voice,' make her question and challenge her own actions in her current relationship. She reflects on the shame and hiddenness associated with the assault, and how her partner's lack of curiosity exacerbates these feelings. The host emphasizes the importance of acknowledging the hiddenness and working through the trauma with open communication and understanding.
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