Explore the reasons why toddlers reject one parent and how to handle this situation gracefully. Learn strategies for supporting a child during parental separation and coping with rejection. Discover the importance of seizing one-on-one moments with your child for bonding and connection.
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A toddler's rejection of one parent is often not a personal attack, but can stem from various factors such as boundary issues.
Parents should stay composed, not take the rejection personally, and create opportunities for the rejected parent to bond with the child in their own way.
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Dealing With Toddler Rejection
In this episode of Unruffled, Janet Lansbury addresses a common issue faced by parents: a toddler's rejection of one parent, in this case, the father. Lansbury emphasizes that this behavior is normal and not a personal attack. She suggests that the rejection could stem from a variety of factors, including boundary issues with the mother or the child's desire to regain control after the arrival of a new baby. She advises parents to stay composed, not take it personally, and create opportunities for the rejected parent to bond with the child in their own way.
Being the Bigger Person in Parenting
Lansbury highlights the importance of rising above petty emotions in parenting and being the bigger person. She reassures parents that the rejection from a child is not a reflection of their worth as a parent. Instead, it presents an opportunity for parents to demonstrate resilience and be a safe space for their child's complaints and frustrations. By allowing children to express their emotions and not getting caught up in trying too hard to please or win them over, parents can build stronger bonds and foster trust with their children.
Janet responds to a note from a mom who says her toddler is actively rejecting her husband's company and attention, a situation which is hurtful to them both. For more advice on common infant/toddler parenting issues, please check out Janet's books at Amazon and Audible (adbl.co/2OBVztZ). Also available for download, her audio series "Sessions" -- recorded consultations with parents discussing their most immediate and pressing concerns (SessionsAudio.com).
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