Get Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell 77: Moving Beyond Superficial to Deeper Connection with Adam and Karissa King
Apr 8, 2022
Join therapists Adam and Karissa King, a husband-wife duo from Elk Grove, as they tackle the struggles of superficial intimacy in marriage. They share insights on enhancing emotional connections and the vital role of communication. The discussion dives into navigating complex sexual desires while emphasizing trust and vulnerability. The Kings also critique negative narratives around intimacy, advocating for a more positive view of sexuality as a divine gift. Get ready for practical tips to foster deeper connections and rekindle excitement in relationships!
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Pursuer-Withdrawer Dynamics in Intimacy
- Intimacy issues often arise from a pursuer-withdrawer dynamic, especially in sex where men often pursue and women withdraw.
- Trauma, safety, and negative associations profoundly impact intimacy and require understanding deeper emotional brakes and accelerators.
Cultural Silence Around Sexuality
- Cultural silence and negative messages around sex cause difficulty in discussing sexual desires.
- Transitioning from viewing sex as sinful to pleasurable is challenging for many, especially women raised with these norms.
Call Out Vulnerability Openly
- When facing sexual communication barriers, call out your own vulnerability and fears instead of blaming your spouse.
- Speaking your insecurities openly invites empathy and constructive response, easing anxiety around tough conversations.