Why do achievements feel empty? Tired of white knuckling it? Overachievers, this episode names what you couldn’t explain... until now.
Inside This Episode on Intrinsic Motivation You'll Learn:
- How relying on external validation keeps you in victim mentality
- The trap perfectionists fall into when they get into personal development
- Steps you can do to start cultivating intrinsic motivation
- Why it’s critical for overachievers to develop an internal sense of self (Mamba mentality) separate from achievements
- The mistaken motivations perfectionistic people latch onto & how to redirect
Credible Sources & Citations for Ep. 66
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