Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel Esther Calling - I Want To Fit In, But I Don't Want To Fit In
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Jun 16, 2025 A single mother by choice navigates the challenges of dating amid traditional community values. She grapples with balancing her new identity and desires for intimacy while raising her child. The conversation dives into societal expectations versus personal fulfillment, reflecting on the struggle between fitting in and standing out. They discuss the emotional complexities of motherhood and the necessity of support systems as she seeks connection and self-acceptance in a world laden with judgment.
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Single Mother’s New Dating Fears
- A woman shares her journey as a single mother by choice using IVF with an anonymous donor.
- She expresses fears about dating and finding a partner suitable for her and her daughter.
Partner vs Parental Role Model
- The caller distinguishes between wanting a romantic partner and a parental role model for her daughter.
- She does not seek a replacement father but values stability and emotional availability in partners.
Relationship Options for Single Moms
- Dating as a single mother requires balancing intimacy needs and protecting the child’s wellbeing.
- Relationships can be separate from family life or involve blending families, each with distinct dynamics.