We Can Do Hard Things

Cameron Esposito: How to Save Your Damn Self (Best Of)

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Mar 2, 2025
Cameron Esposito, a groundbreaking queer and gender non-conforming stand-up comic and writer, opens up about her complex relationship with her body and how humor has evolved from a defensive tool to a means of authentic expression. She shares her journey of crying for the first time in 35 years and what it means to feel 'overnoticed' as a kid. The conversation dives into friendship dynamics, the balance of vulnerability in personal relationships, and the joys of embracing community in the LGBTQ+ space.
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ANECDOTE

Childhood Gender Nonconformity

  • Cameron Esposito always felt different as a child, drawn to traditionally masculine roles and toys.
  • Her school even questioned her parents when she auditioned for a male lead in a play.
INSIGHT

Body Image and Gender

  • Esposito discusses her complex relationship with her body, heightened by playing a "sexy" TV role.
  • She feels a disconnect between her androgynous features and her more traditionally feminine ones.
ANECDOTE

Humor as a Shield

  • Esposito developed humor as a defense mechanism against childhood bullying.
  • This led to a career in comedy, but she later questioned its viability when her marriage ended.
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