{REPLAY} How to Influence - Not Control - Behaviors

Understanding the difference between having influence over behavior vs. control can help you get clear on what to focus on. 

One of the trickier parts of the work I do is talking so much with parents about attachment, their role in co-regulation, and felt-safety, without snagging into parent’s shame about every parent's deepest worry- that their child’s baffling behaviors are all their fault.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• What it means to influence, not control
• What your real responsibility is in influencing behavior
• Responsibility does not equal blame
• How to acknowledge influence without shame

Read a summary or the full transcript at:
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