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How I Work

Is the fear of what others think holding you back? Shelley Johnson shares how to let it go

Nov 27, 2024
Shelley Johnson, a leadership coach and columnist for The Age and Sydney Morning Herald, dives into the psychological barriers caused by fearing others' judgments. She discusses how this fear can stifle personal growth and offers practical strategies to overcome it. Shelley emphasizes the importance of purposeful sharing at work and warns against oversharing, suggesting it undermines trust. She also critiques the notion of 'bringing your whole self to work,' advocating instead for bringing your best self to foster a healthier workplace culture.
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Quick takeaways

  • Worrying about others' opinions can cripple personal growth, ultimately leading to a fractured self-image and hindered authenticity.
  • Handling feedback effectively requires assessing its relevance and source credibility, empowering individuals to focus on personal growth instead of external judgments.

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The Impact of Others' Opinions on Personal Growth

Worrying about what others think can significantly hinder both professional and personal growth. Individuals often find themselves at a crossroads, weighing the importance of others' opinions against their personal goals and aspirations. As experts pointed out, this fear can lead to choices that detract from one's authenticity, resulting in a divided self-image, such as creating separate wardrobes for different roles. Ultimately, acknowledging that people will have their opinions regardless encourages individuals to prioritize integrity and congruence in their personal and work lives.

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