A reader of DrPsychMom.com wrote in with a story about how she attracts these "friends" that end up using her for childcare or whatever else. I explore how her family of origin issues likely set her up for these difficult situations, how to assert boundaries early on, and a reframe for what is really the kindest and most ethical approach in these types of situations. If you're an adult child of a dysfunctional family, this should be required listening to inform your approach for both friendship and dating!