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Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled
Coping with Your Child's Possessiveness
Jan 30, 2024
Children commonly go through possessive phases, refusing to share and wanting everything others show interest in. Janet explains the reasons behind this behavior and offers advice on how to address it. She discusses handling possessiveness between siblings and peers and provides verbal examples. The podcast also covers understanding children's grief and possessiveness when a new baby arrives, and explores the concept of equality among siblings and the importance of meeting individual needs.
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- Toddlers exhibit possessive behavior driven by their need to control and hold onto things in the face of changing circumstances, so it is crucial for parents to validate their feelings without attempting to reason with them.
- Parents can prevent tension and resistance by acknowledging children's immediate feelings instead of demanding sharing without considering their emotional perspective, and can foster sharing through modeling and providing meaningful opportunities for cooperation.
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Understanding Toddler Possessiveness and Expressing Feelings
Toddlers often exhibit possessiveness and resistance towards sharing when it comes to their younger siblings or peers. These behaviors are driven by their need to control and hold onto things as their world changes. It is important for parents to acknowledge and validate their child's feelings without attempting to reason with them. By offering a calm and accepting response, parents help their children navigate their emotions and create a safe space for expression. Physical interventions may be necessary to prevent harm, but explaining reasonability may not be effective. Trusting the children to work through their feelings and providing a predictable routine also supports their development.
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