Happy Place Blame achieves nothing! How to forgive yourself and others, with Charlie Mackesy
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Oct 13, 2025 Charlie Mackesy, renowned illustrator and author of the heartwarming book, The Boy, The Mole, The Fox and The Horse, joins the conversation to explore the power of forgiveness and human connection. He discusses how shame can be physically felt and the importance of sharing vulnerabilities. Charlie emphasizes that blame is counterproductive and shares advice on navigating a polarized world with respectful disagreement. The chat touches on his new book, revealing how art can aid in healing and the importance of vulnerability, especially among men.
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Unexpected Train Encounters
- Charlie describes spontaneous human connection on a silent train that turned emotional when passengers recognized his work.
- A woman told him his book helped after a miscarriage, showing small encounters can be deeply moving.
Art As Honest Processing
- Charlie began making drawings for friends as an honest way to express and process feelings without expecting consequences.
- He reads comments and real responses which taught him the work's impact beyond intention.
Process, Then Let Go
- Process grievances fully, then consciously let go to avoid drinking from a toxic cup that harms you.
- State wrongs when needed, but aim to forgive so you can walk free and heal.
