Raising Good Humans The Practical Strategies for Parenting Highly Sensitive Children
48 snips
Jun 13, 2025 In this insightful discussion, Claire Lerner, a childhood development expert and author of 'Big Reactors,' shares practical strategies for parenting highly sensitive children, or 'orchid kids.' She addresses common challenges like setting boundaries and handling tantrums, emphasizing the importance of 'positive discomfort' for growth. Claire offers tips for fostering emotional resilience while balancing kids' needs with family dynamics. Real-life case studies illustrate effective sensitive caregiving approaches, empowering parents to nurture their children's unique sensitivities.
AI Snips
Chapters
Transcript
Episode notes
Swimming Class Exposure Success
- A highly sensitive child resisted going to swimming class but after support and exposure, she started participating and enjoying it.
- Parents acted as 'detectives' to explore and validate fears, helping the child gradually adapt to the new environment.
Balancing Child Wants and Needs
- Knowing what a child wants versus what they truly need is key to sensitive caregiving.
- Sometimes adapting the environment is needed; other times, children must learn flexibility and limits.
True Meaning of Sensitive Caregiving
- Sensitive caregiving doesn't mean meeting every child request; it balances the child's needs with family needs.
- Setting limits lovingly teaches children about boundaries and avoids entitlement.