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Episode 551: Why women get ghosted (they're not worth it)

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Sep 8, 2025
The podcast delves into why some women get ghosted after intimate encounters. It reveals that many erroneously believe sex diminishes their long-term appeal, when in fact, it can enhance it. It discusses how perceived value affects relationship dynamics, suggesting that high expectations can deter potential partners. Listeners gain insights on navigating relationships confidently and creating positive dating experiences while understanding the psychological factors behind ghosting.
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INSIGHT

Sex Isn't What Gets Women Ghosted

  • Sex is rarely a negative signal to men; attraction drives courtship efforts.
  • Orion Taraban argues men who initiate dates already want sexual access, so sex itself doesn't disqualify women.
ADVICE

Maximize The Good-Times To Hassle Ratio

  • Make yourself a high good-times to hassle ratio on dates to earn repeat interest.
  • Be fun, pleasant, and low-drama to increase the chance of follow-up dates and sex.
INSIGHT

Behavior Sets The Price Of Opportunity

  • Relationships move through attraction, negotiation, and maintenance stages.
  • Taraban says most negotiation is behavioral and sets the 'price' of a woman's sexual opportunity.
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