The Psychology of your 20s 371. The psychology of success
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Jan 5, 2026 What truly defines success? Discover the distinction between objective and subjective success, and why personal meaning is crucial. Explore the self-determination theory, focusing on autonomy, competence, and relatedness for fulfillment. Learn the five essential habits of successful individuals, like embracing failure and working silently to nurture growth. Jemma emphasizes the importance of diverse interests to build a robust identity beyond just achievements. Plus, success is not time-bound—it's never too late to find your path!
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Objective Vs Subjective Success
- Success has two sides: objective markers and subjective fulfillment.
- Objective achievements alone rarely bring lasting well-being without personal meaning.
The Three Needs That Drive Success
- Self-Determination Theory says success depends on autonomy, competence, and relatedness.
- Meeting these needs yields motivation, skill growth, and meaningful connection.
Choose Goals That Are Truly Yours
- Test your motives by finishing "I choose this because..." to check for external pressure.
- Pursue goals that you genuinely want, not those chosen to impress others.
