Learn why it's crucial to pay close attention to the time you spend with your kids, and how to make the most out of it. Discover the importance of tracking and celebrating milestones and activities together.
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Take stock of the limited time you have with your children and make the most of it by tracking milestones and experiences.
Choose specific activities to track that align with the experiences you want to create and cherish as a family.
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Track the Numbers of Your Parenting Journey
Parenting can feel overwhelming and chaotic, but it's important to slow down and take stock of the time you have with your children. Consider the numbers: you only get 18 summers at home with your kids, around 420 days before they start talking, and around 400 days before they can walk. There are limited first days of school, graduations, and times you can drive them to school. By tracking these numbers, you become aware of the limited time you have and can make the most of it.
Track Meaningful Experiences and Milestones
In addition to tracking time, focus on tracking meaningful experiences and milestones. By taking a mile walk together in the morning and evening as a family, you can accumulate 600 miles a year and travel the entire United States in just five years. Reading three kids' books every night from birth to age 10 means you've read almost 11,000 books together. Writing postcards when you're out of town creates memories for them to cherish. Visiting two national parks each year as a family ensures that by the time your children are in their 30s, they will have experienced every national park in America. Choose what to track based on the experiences you want to create and cherish as a family.
“This whole thing can go by so fast. Because you have so much going on. Because you feel like you’re barely keeping your head above water. It’s understandable, but if you don’t slow down and wrap your head around this parenting thing, you can end up missing so much that matters.”
Ryan explains why you should pay close attention to the time you spend with you kids, and how you can make the most out of it, on today’s Daily Dad podcast.
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