TED Talks Daily Sunday Pick: What happens to sex in midlife? A look at the "bedroom gap" | TED Health
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Mar 30, 2025 
Join gynecologist Maria Sophocles and OBGYN Jessica Shepard as they tackle the often-taboo topic of menopause and its impact on sexual health. They discuss the 'bedroom gap,' addressing the overlooked sexual challenges women face in midlife. With humor and insight, they advocate for breaking the silence around menopause and encourage open dialogue to foster understanding and support. The conversation emphasizes the need for better education on women's sexual needs and promotes a cultural shift towards recognizing pleasure at all stages of life.
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The Bedroom Gap
- Menopause is often associated with hot flashes, but sexual issues are also common.
- These issues, like pain or loss of libido, contribute to a "bedroom gap" between partners.
Estrogen's Impact
- Estrogen loss during menopause affects vaginal collagen and blood vessels.
- This leads to dryness, discomfort, and difficulty with arousal and lubrication.
Ring of Fire
- One patient humorously described painful sex during menopause as a "ring of fire".
- She uses humor to cope with the discomfort and avoid upsetting her partner.