Rena Malik, MD Podcast: Optimizing Health, Sex & Relationships with Science Backed Tips from Leading Experts Moment: Why Your Butt Slaps Aren’t Turning Her On! Sex Therapist Explains how to Initiate the Right Way
Jan 15, 2025
Delve into the complexities of sexual initiation and the misunderstandings that often arise in relationships. Discover how humor isn’t always the best approach for intimacy. Learn effective communication strategies to understand what arouses your partner. Explore the emotional aspects of sexual dysfunction and practical tips for issues like premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction. Emphasis is placed on empathy and teamwork to enhance emotional connection and redefine a fulfilling sex life.
AI Snips
Chapters
Transcript
Episode notes
Men's Jokey Initiation Fails
- Men often initiate sex with humor or playful gestures thinking it's flirtatious.
- Female partners frequently find such attempts unarousing or even off-putting.
Give Clear Sexual Guidance
- Tell your partner what turns you on instead of just rejecting unwanted advances.
- Use specific examples like physical touch, texts, or setting a mood to guide initiation.
Sex Beyond Orgasm
- Sex is more about emotional connection and feeling than just orgasm or physicality.
- The quality of feeling safe, comforted, or playful enriches sexual experience beyond the act itself.