Beyond Broken Vows | Christian Marriage, Adultery, Pornography Addiction, Sexual Betrayal, Intimacy 14 | To Tell Or Not To Tell: 3 Things We Did Right (And 1 Thing We Didn’t) When Deciding Who Needs To Know Our Infidelity Story
Aug 14, 2023
Explore the emotional journey of navigating infidelity and the critical decision of whether to disclose the betrayal. The hosts discuss the fears that often come with sharing such personal pain and weigh the benefits of seeking counsel and support. They reveal their own missteps related to secrecy and outline a thoughtful process for determining who to tell. Through biblical insights, they emphasize the healing power of confession and intimacy in relationships, offering hope and guidance for couples facing similar struggles.
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Disclosure Is A Personal, Joint Decision
- Deciding whether to tell others after infidelity is a deeply personal choice couples must make together and before God.
- There is no universal right answer; context and relationship dynamics determine disclosure.
You Can't Control Others' Reactions
- You cannot control others' emotional reactions; you are not responsible for managing how they respond to painful news.
- Expect hurt and varied responses and prioritize your and your spouse's needs when deciding disclosure.
Share The Load With Trusted Friends
- Share burdens with trustworthy people because help lets you go further than going it alone.
- Contact proven friends who will listen without judgment and offer steady support.