With The Perrys Part 1: Dating After 30, Singleness, and Other Questions Answered
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Aug 25, 2025 Ebenezer Endiryas, a single pastor, and Megan Ashley, a divorced mother of three, share their insights on the often-overlooked topic of singleness in their 30s. They discuss navigating the complexities of dating after divorce and the wisdom gained from being single. The conversation touches on cultural pressures for marriage, the significance of spiritual growth, and the challenge of finding fulfillment beyond relationships. Together, they explore the nuances of modern dating and the value of community and faith in their journeys.
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Singleness Can Be A Strategic Gift
- Ebenezer reframed singleness as a season of effectiveness and ministry freedom rather than failure.
- He found joy in mobility, influence, and Paul’s teaching that singleness can enable kingdom work.
Divorce Then Rediscovering Freedom
- Megan described leaving a 14-year marriage and the mixed freedom and grief that followed.
- She explained placing the Lord in the role of husband while navigating shame and church stigma after divorce.
Single Pastor Changed A Man's Hope
- Ebenezer shared a church story where a man with same-sex attraction started attending because the pastor was single.
- That encounter removed shame and showed single leaders provide visible validation for others in faith.
