Women of Impact #1 Divorce Judge Exposes Cheaters, Liars & How to Know if it’s Love or a Lie | Judge Lynn Toler - PT 1
Oct 29, 2025
In a gripping conversation, Judge Lynn Toler shares her expertise from 14 years on Divorce Court, diving deep into the complexities of love and betrayal. She reveals how men and women rationalize infidelity differently, discusses the impact of social media on modern relationships, and uncovers why women often leave relationships in silence. With insights on snooping and forgiveness, Lynn highlights the importance of nurturing a marriage and how community support helps women rebuild after divorce. Her candid advice is both practical and empowering.
AI Snips
Chapters
Books
Transcript
Episode notes
Different Justifications For Infidelity
- Men and women both justify cheating but in different emotional registers.
- Women worry about emotional attachment while men focus on physical acts, says Judge Lynn Toler.
Why Proof Matters More Than Leaving
- Women are more likely to snoop through phones and gather proof.
- Judge Lynn Toler says proof often serves to validate sanity, not to end the relationship.
Parental Proximity Affects Manipulation Risk
- Women more often manipulate children in divorce because they typically have closer parental roles.
- Judge Lynn warns gender patterns exist but dislikes rigid gendering.
