419: How To Let Go When You Can't Let Go

Oct 15, 2025

Explore the transformative journey of letting go when it feels impossible. Discover how surrender isn't just a choice but a natural outcome when the ego tires. Learn to bless the part of you that clings to the past and embrace emotional honesty. Shift your focus to the lessons life is teaching you, and realize that divine redirection creates space for new opportunities. Find freedom by engaging with life again through creativity and action, trusting that what is meant for you will never be lost.

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INSIGHT

Letting Go Is A Grace Not An Act

Letting go isn't something the ego does; it happens when the ego becomes exhausted and surrender arises as a grace.
You can intend or practice release, but true letting go often occurs beyond willpower when protection no longer dominates.

ADVICE

Bless The Part Holding On

Honor and bless the part of you that is holding on instead of judging it.
Place your hand on your heart and thank that part for trying to protect you to begin softening resistance.

ADVICE

Feel The Fear To Release

Stop forcing release and instead feel the fear beneath your grip by asking what you're actually afraid will happen.
Acknowledge and allow the grief or pain to move through you so release can organically begin.

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"When someone or something leaves your life, it's not rejection, it's divine redirection."

There comes a moment when you know it's time to let go of that relationship, that dream, that version of yourself you've outgrown, yet something inside still holds on. You've prayed, journaled, meditated, and tried to release, but the grip remains.

In this episode of Soul Talk, I share what it truly means to let go when you can't let go. You'll learn why surrender isn't something you do, but something that happens when the ego finally gets tired of trying to control life.

Letting go isn't weakness, it's grace. It's the art of trusting life's timing, honoring your resistance, and allowing yourself to be guided by something deeper than your mind.

Listen to this episode and learn how to soften the struggle, trust the process, and open to the freedom that comes when you stop forcing and start flowing. Because letting go isn't the end, it's the beginning of a new you.

Timestamps:

(00:00:54) - The moment you know it's time to let go.
(00:03:26) - Understanding the nature of letting go and the role of the ego
(00:05:20) - Why we cling: ego as protection, not weakness
(00:06:16) - Blessing the part of you that's still holding on
(00:08:32) - Feel, don't force: the importance of emotional honesty
(00:10:36) - Letting go of the idea of letting go
(00:13:41) - Asking the right question: What lesson is life teaching me?
(00:19:24) - You cannot lose what is meant for you
(00:16:49) - Trusting divine redirection and making space for new
(00:17:30) - Living again: how action heals
(00:18:41) - Letting go doesn't mean you don't care; it means you trust
(00:20:50) - Trusting divine redirection and making space for new

Some questions I ask:

What am I actually afraid will happen if I let go?
What pain am I trying not to feel?
What is this situation teaching me about myself?
What lesson is my soul ready to learn?
What part of me am I being asked to reclaim?

In this episode, you will learn about:

Why forcing yourself to "just let go" often creates more resistance.
How to honor the part of you that's still holding on without judgment.
The difference between willpower and willingness.
How to feel and process the emotions that keep you attached.
Why surrender is a grace, not an action.
How to trust divine timing and redirection in your life.

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