The podcast discusses mixed feelings towards dating, including frustration with heartbreaks and unsuccessful dates. It emphasizes finding value in the dating experience and compares it to Anthony Bourdain's approach of dating the world. It also explores the importance of bringing a generous spirit to our love lives and not giving up, while saying no to the wrong people and remaining hopeful.
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We should view the activities involved in finding love as opportunities to enrich our lives and have new adventures, adding color and flavor to our experiences.
Instead of expecting energy in return for our efforts, we should focus on giving energy for its own sake, embodying qualities like kindness, curiosity, and positivity to attract others to us.
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Focus on enriching your life
In our love lives, we often feel frustrated and resentful towards the activities we have to engage in to find love, such as scrolling through dating apps. However, we can shift our perspective and see these experiences as opportunities to enrich our lives and have new adventures. By embracing new activities and experiences, even if they are outside of our comfort zone, we can add color and flavor to our lives, broaden our horizons, and have more to talk about. Just like Anthony Bourdain dated the world through his travels, we can also create a richer life, even if it doesn't lead to a permanent connection with someone.
Give energy simply to give it
A common source of resentment in our love lives is the expectation of receiving energy in return for our efforts. Instead, we should focus on giving energy simply for the sake of giving. By embodying qualities like kindness, curiosity, and positivity, we can create a generous spirit that attracts others to us. Spreading joy and maintaining a positive outlook without expecting anything in return can also bring out the best in us and attract people we might not normally encounter. Ultimately, it's about being the person we want to be in the world and emitting an energy that others notice.
I can’t tell you how many times a week someone online says to me: “Matthew, I’ve had enough. I’m just going to give up on dating altogether.” It may be because they are sick of getting their heart broken. It may be that they are exhausted from going on dates that don’t go anywhere, or online conversations that never even get to the point of a date in the first place. It could be the frustration of never meeting people they have true chemistry with, or when they finally do, discovering that they aren’t looking for a relationship. If you feel any of these things, I made this for you. --- Discover the 4 Secrets for Escaping Casual Dating Traps. Claim Your FREE PASS for My Dating With Results Training at. . . → http://www.DatingWithResults.com
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