How To Academy Podcast Philippa Perry Meets Becky Barnicoat – The Joy and Chaos of Parenting
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May 30, 2025 In this engaging discussion, cartoonist Becky Barnicoat, known for her work in The New Yorker and author of 'Cry When the Baby Cries,' joins bestselling author Philippa Perry, the Observer's agony aunt. They dive into the chaotic realities of parenting, sharing humorous tales from sleepless nights to the absurdity of baby supplies. They highlight the emotional rollercoaster of new motherhood and the importance of support between partners. With candid anecdotes, the conversation celebrates the messy yet joyful adventure of raising children.
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Realities of New Parenthood
- Becky Barnicoat created her graphic memoir to depict the chaotic reality of parenting, not the idealized advice to "sleep when the baby sleeps."
- She illustrated the intense mix of crying, laughing, and exhausted blankness new parents actually experience.
Motherhood's Physical Shock
- Becky Barnicoat shared her shock at the physical toll of childbirth, including a failed induction, cesarean, and harsh cervix inspections.
- She described the unexpected pain and exhausted state postpartum that society often conceals.
Parenting's Myth vs. Reality
- Parenting memories soften over time, causing many to forget the intense challenges of early parenthood.
- Society often perpetuates a myth that parenting is only fulfilling and joyous, masking its hardships.
