Playing Without a Partner w/ Dr. Megan Stubbs

Feb 21, 2025

Dr. Megan Stubbs, a sexologist and author, dives into the richness of single life, emphasizing that being single is not just a transition but a celebration of self-love and confidence. She shares eye-opening tips on mastering solo pleasure, including masturbation techniques and orgasm hacks. Listeners learn about fostering emotional intimacy, overcoming insecurities about sexual history, and enhancing body image for an empowered dating experience. Plus, discover the art of sending nudes and creating pre-date rituals to elevate connections!

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Intro

00:00 • 6min

Embracing Singleness and Self-Discovery

05:39 • 10min

Embracing Self-Discovery and Past Experiences

15:16 • 7min

Exploring Intimacy and Body Acceptance

22:12 • 13min

Navigating Relationships and Maintaining Attraction

35:11 • 3min

Maintaining Spark in Relationships and Prioritizing Pleasure

37:42 • 3min

I’m joined by sexologist, relationships expert, body image specialist, and author of Playing Without a Partner Dr. Megan Stubbs. We dive into how to embrace every aspect of singlehood (hello, masturbation!) and why being single doesn’t have to be a layover, it can be your destination. We give tips for loving your body, ways to elevate your orgasm, and how to alleviate skin hunger when you aren’t in a relationship. Plus, we’re sharing tips for sending nudes, ways to create an optimal pre-date ritual, and ideas for being with a new partner.

We also answer your questions about what to do if you feel insecure about the number of people you have slept with, how to increase emotional intimacy in the bedroom and what to do if you feel you’re in a “dry spell.”

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Why being single isn’t a “waiting room”—it’s a destination for confidence, self-love, and incredible orgasms.
How to turn your solo pleasure game all the way up with masturbation, edging, and next-level orgasm hacks.
The secrets to emotional intimacy in the bedroom (even if your partner struggles with it).

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