BHE 108 - THE TINDER SWINDLER - Alexandra

This week Emeka and Alejohndra are discussing the Netflix doc, The Tinder Swindler. The rest of crew has been held hostage by our road back to you haters in Prague. Please paypal $500 to bhepodcast@gmail.com or David and Nancy will die. Love you babies forever.

— (7:58) Overview/Summary of the premise and why this story is compelling from the POV of the enneagram
— (13:29) Attachment is the fundamental O.R. structure for everyone and people don’t really connect with each other
— (15:28) 3s are mirroring back to you what you find valuable and crafting an emotional landscape
— (28:44) The competency of 3 at masterminding an identity and scheme
— (33:58) Elizabeth Holmes and Kanye as further examples of what’s so compelling about 3s
— (40:51) How the different assertive types scam people
— (45:00) Attachment gone bad on The Bachelor and Love is Blind. The 9 vs 3 style of blankness

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