#174 The Power and Pleasure of Pegging (with Ruby Ryder)

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Ruby Ryder of PeggingParadise.com and TheArtofPegging.com. Ruby is a podcaster, blogger, sex worker, sex educator and a published writer of erotic fiction. She has been educating people about pegging for the last 13 years. She moderated panels at CatalystCon East and West, and presented at DomCon LA. Ruby’s erotica is in Violet Blue’s ‘Best Women’s Erotica 2014.’ She also appeared in an episode of Comedy Central’s ‘Not Safe with Nikki Glaser’. Ruby’s mission is to help interested people add one more thing to their sexual treasure chest of choices by teaching them all about pegging, and to do everything she can to encourage more sex-positivity with less sexual shame. She resides in Southern California near the beach, and loves watching the surfers change out of their wetsuits.

Key points:

• Ruby introduces herself
• The misconceptions around pegging
• The importance of communication, consent, and comfort 
• Role reversal, deepening intimacy, and understanding partners
• Emotional responses during pegging
• Equipment for pegging
• Erections, performance, and pleasure 

Relevant Links:

Ruby’s websites: https://peggingparadise.com/ and https://www.theartofpegging.com/

Ruby’s TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@peggingparadise