Big decisions get heavy when our lives don’t match our values. We set out to change that by getting ruthless about clarity and gentle about self-honesty.

Think of this conversation as a blueprint for making choices that align with your best life you always think about: together we define deal breakers across career, relationships, and where you live, and we show how a short pause for reflection can prevent months of second-guessing. Instead of hoping the shiny option will evolve into your best-case scenario, you’ll learn to look for evidence, protect your daily non-negotiables, and walk away from almost-right.

We start with a simple truth: successful people get what they want because they know what they want and act on it. From there, we map a practical process.

The Clarity Reset. Year-End Guided Reflection. Claim Your Seat.

The goal is probability, not control, designing for a high chance of fit instead of gambling on luck.

I'm hosting a free, 90‑minute Clarity Reset on January 3 to help you do this work in real time. Bring your year, your questions, and a willingness to define what you won’t trade away. Subscribe, share this with someone making a big choice, and join us for the reset.

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Brought to you by Angela Shurina

Behavior-First, Executive, Leadership and Optimal Performance Coach 360, Change Leadership & Culture Transformation Consultant

Dealbreakers: how to make difficult life decisions simple and fast. Career, life partner, a place to live.