Pure Desire Podcast 142 - Facing Your Fantasies w/ Drew Boa
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Mar 24, 2020 Exploring the complexities of sexual fantasies and overcoming internal battles with guest Drew Boa. Uncovering arousal templates, origins of fantasies, and connections to emotional issues. Empowerment through a love-based approach and tools for healing and self-awareness.
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Power and Domination Fantasy
- Drew Boa's fantasies involved power and domination, reflecting a desire for control he lacked in his childhood.
- Moving frequently and feeling abandoned by his parents during a move to Texas led to his initial pornography use at 13.
Fantasies as Symbols
- Fantasies symbolize desires, which are inherently good but can become broken and twisted.
- They act as a mirror, reflecting our deeper longings and the wounded child within us.
Exhibitionism and Shame
- Drew Boa felt shame after being exposed at summer camp as a child.
- This led to exhibitionist tendencies in college, a way of reversing his past shame and reclaiming control.