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When Challenges Lead to Growth

Sep 11, 2025
Aaron and Jennifer share the ups and downs of their family camping trip, emphasizing how music and creativity foster connection. They highlight the 'gap and gains' mindset, encouraging couples to measure progress based on personal growth rather than unreachable ideals. The importance of recovery days for restoring energy and maintaining balance is discussed, along with the role of prayer in strengthening relationships. Facing fears together, like overcoming the fear of heights, becomes a powerful catalyst for growth and resilience in marriage.
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ANECDOTE

Road Trip Sparked Deep Connection

  • Jennifer and Aaron described a two-week family road trip through Yellowstone and Glacier filled with music, conversation, and shared wonder.
  • The trip created extended time for dreaming, spiritual conversation, and family connection that strengthened their marriage.
ANECDOTE

Chaos Before Departure, Rapid Recovery

  • In the lead-up to the trip they faced sickness, a broken collarbone, and Jennifer throwing her back out, which made preparation chaotic.
  • Despite those setbacks they went and experienced rapid recoveries and found the trip restorative.
INSIGHT

Measure Progress By Gains Not Gap

  • Aaron explains the 'gap and gains' concept: measure progress against your past, not an ever-shifting ideal.
  • Shifting from gap to gains reframes failure into visible sanctification and forward movement in Christ.
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