Marriage After God - Biblical advice, practical tips, and inspiring stories to strengthen your relationship and deepen your spiritual connection

In this discussion, Joby Martin, a pastor and author known for his insights on biblical manhood, shares his thoughts on marriage and parenting. He emphasizes that a strong marriage is rooted in faith and mutual submission to Christ. Joby highlights the importance of mentorship and community support, encouraging men to redefine greatness through service and responsibility. He also discusses the significance of intergenerational relationships in spiritual growth, reminding us of the redemptive power of Christ and the fresh starts He offers.

The Heart of Discipleship In HomeschoolingIn this episode, Aaron sits down with David and Leslie Nunnery to talk about their journey into homeschooling and the lessons they’ve learned along the way. They share how homeschooling is about so much more than academics—it’s about relationships, discipleship, and intentionally aligning family priorities. Together they discuss overcoming doubts, navigating challenges, and using daily life as a natural opportunity for discipleship.Takeaways:Homeschooling is not just about education; it's about relationships.Discipleship should be the focus of homeschooling.Parents are the primary disciplers of their children.Building a strong family culture is essential for effective homeschooling.Daily life provides natural opportunities for discipleship.It's important to align family goals and priorities.Homeschooling can be a tool for deeper family connections.Overcoming the "enough" question is crucial for new homeschoolers.Creating a habit of family devotions fosters spiritual growth.Investing time in relationships strengthens family bonds.Connect with David and Leslie Nunnery:Website: https://teachthemdiligently.net/Instagram: @teachdiligently Follow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After God - https://www.instagram.com/marriageaftergodInstagram: Unveiled Wife - https://www.instagram.com/unveiledwifeInstagram: Husband Revolution - https://www.instagram.com/husbandrevolutionSupport this podcast:Shop: https://shop.marriageaftergod.com/Become a patron: https://marriageaftergod.com/patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2025Keywords:homeschooling, discipleship, family dynamics, parenting, education, Teach Them Diligently, relationships, faith, Christian parenting, family devotionsOur Sponsors:* Check out Mr. Pen and use my code MAG10 for a great deal: https://mrpen.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/marriage-after-god-biblical-advice-practical-tips-and-inspiring-/donations

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Aaron and Jennifer share the ups and downs of their family camping trip, emphasizing how music and creativity foster connection. They highlight the 'gap and gains' mindset, encouraging couples to measure progress based on personal growth rather than unreachable ideals. The importance of recovery days for restoring energy and maintaining balance is discussed, along with the role of prayer in strengthening relationships. Facing fears together, like overcoming the fear of heights, becomes a powerful catalyst for growth and resilience in marriage.

Aaron Smith sits down with Gary Thomas, bestselling author and teaching pastor, to talk about his journey into marriage ministry and the role of the local church in our spiritual growth. They discuss the dangers of entitlement, the lies that keep us from intimacy with God, and the importance of multi-generational ministry. Gary reminds us that gratitude and grace are key to cultivating joy and compassion in our walk with Christ.Key TakeawaysThe local church is essential for community and growth.Entitlement robs us of gratitude and joy.Struggles with sin are expected in the Christian life.Spiritual adventure keeps our faith vibrant.Recognizing our sin helps us have compassion toward others.The church should be a place of healing and support.Gratitude for God’s grace leads to a joyful life.Connect with Gary Thomas:Website: https://garythomas.com/Books: https://garythomas.com/books/Instagram: @garythomasbooksFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After God - https://www.instagram.com/marriageaftergodInstagram: Unveiled Wife - https://www.instagram.com/unveiledwifeInstagram: Husband Revolution - https://www.instagram.com/husbandrevolutionSupport this podcast:Shop: https://shop.marriageaftergod.com/Become a patron: https://marriageaftergod.com/patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2025Keywordsmarriage, ministry, church, community, spiritual growth, intimacy with God, entitlement, sin, graceOur Sponsors:* Check out Mr. Pen and use my code MAG10 for a great deal: https://mrpen.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/marriage-after-god-biblical-advice-practical-tips-and-inspiring-/donations

In this episode, Aaron Smith sits down with Dr. Juli Slattery to explore sexuality from a Christian perspective. Together, they discuss how cultural shifts have shaped our understanding of marriage and sexuality, the growing tension between psychology and faith, and why open, biblical conversations are vital for families today. Dr. Slattery shares how surrendering our sexuality to God, addressing shame, and grounding ourselves in truth are key to experiencing healing and intimacy. This conversation also highlights the role of parents in guiding their children with wisdom and truth in the face of cultural pressures.Key TakeawaysSexuality is a critical topic for Christians today.Cultural shifts have changed perceptions of marriage and sexuality.Many Christians wrestle with how psychology integrates with faith.The purpose of sexuality has shifted toward self-fulfillment rather than God’s design.Parents must engage in open, honest conversations with their children about sexuality.Surrendering sexuality to God involves addressing shame and brokenness.Understanding God’s truth is essential to combat cultural lies.True healing requires a personal relationship with Jesus.Cultural pressures can complicate biblical conversations around sexuality.Teaching children truth equips them to navigate a complex and confusing world.Connect With Dr. Juli SlatteryInstagram: @authenticintimacyBooks: https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B00HNSB114?ccs_id=686b0293-8c34-414f-a1f0-f19bf3d32d58Website: https://www.authenticintimacy.com/Follow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After God - https://www.instagram.com/marriageaftergodInstagram: Unveiled Wife - https://www.instagram.com/unveiledwifeInstagram: Husband Revolution - https://www.instagram.com/husbandrevolutionSupport this podcast:Shop: https://shop.marriageaftergod.com/Become a patron: https://marriageaftergod.com/patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2025Keywordssexuality, marriage, biblical counseling, cultural shifts, parenting, surrender, healing, truth, intimacy, Christian perspectiveOur Sponsors:* Check out Mr. Pen and use my code MAG10 for a great deal: https://mrpen.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/marriage-after-god-biblical-advice-practical-tips-and-inspiring-/donations

In this episode, Aaron Smith sits down with author Jackie Avilés, to share her powerful story of walking through a terminal cancer diagnosis. Jackie Avilés is widely known as the “Internet’s Hope Coach.” She imparts hope grounded in biblical truth—offering Scripture-based encouragement and practical strategies to help people move from despair into hope-filled living. In today’s episode, Jackie opens up about how her faith in God sustained her through suffering, the importance of prayer, and what it means to lament well in times of pain.Key Takeaways:Jackie shares her personal journey of being diagnosed with stage four terminal metastatic breast cancerHow faith and prayer can carry usr through life’s toughest challengesThe significance of lament and finding hope in God during seasons of sufferingThe impact of trials on marriage and family relationshipsEncouragement for couples to lean on God’s promises and find strength in weaknessBe encouraged as Jackie reminds us that even when we feel pressed, we are not crushed—because of Christ in us.Connect With Jackie ​​Avilés:Instagram: @jackie_avilesWebsite: https://jackieaviles.com/Follow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After God - https://www.instagram.com/marriageaftergodInstagram: Unveiled Wife - https://www.instagram.com/unveiledwifeInstagram: Husband Revolution - https://www.instagram.com/husbandrevolutionSupport this podcast:Shop: https://shop.marriageaftergod.com/Become a patron: https://marriageaftergod.com/patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2025Keywords: testimony, suffering, faith through trials, Christian marriage, cancer, God’s promises, strength in weaknessOur Sponsors:* Check out Mr. Pen and use my code MAG10 for a great deal: https://mrpen.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/marriage-after-god-biblical-advice-practical-tips-and-inspiring-/donations

Aaron and Jennifer Smith share reflections from a full and meaningful summer—homeschooling adventures, the value of preserving memories, and the encouragement they received at a recent homeschool conference. They open up about the bittersweet transition of leaving their home church and how gardening has become a personal metaphor for growth. Through prayer, community, and faith, they embrace the process of change, finding joy in transformation.Key TakeawaysPrioritizing relationships with family.Creating tangible memories.Homeschooling thrives with intentional planning.Transitioning from a church community can be emotional but necessary.Gardening illustrates personal growth and consistent effort.Prayer and support from friends are vital during hard times.Change requires patience, communication, and faith.Joy can be found in the journey of transformation.Follow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After God - https://www.instagram.com/marriageaftergodInstagram: Unveiled Wife - https://www.instagram.com/unveiledwifeInstagram: Husband Revolution - https://www.instagram.com/husbandrevolutionSupport this podcast:Shop: https://shop.marriageaftergod.com/Become a patron: https://marriageaftergod.com/patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2025Keywords: marriage, parenting, homeschooling, planning, family, growth, change, prayer, community, memories, encouragementOur Sponsors:* Check out Mr. Pen and use my code MAG10 for a great deal: https://mrpen.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/marriage-after-god-biblical-advice-practical-tips-and-inspiring-/donations

This week Aaron Smith sits down with Jay Holland, husband to Emily, and the biological, adoptive, and foster father of four children. For over 25 years he’s served as a pastor in college and student ministries and has personally navigated seasons of special‑needs parenting within his own family, and is the voice behind the Let’s Parent on Purpose podcast. Together, they discuss the intersection of marriage, parenting, and youth ministry. Jay shares powerful insights on raising children in today’s culture, the importance of rites of passage in shaping manhood and womanhood, and how parents can intentionally model faith and humility in their homes.Whether you’re navigating the challenges of parenting or seeking to strengthen your marriage in the midst of raising kids, this episode is packed with biblical wisdom and practical encouragement.Key Topics:Marriage and parenting in a digital ageThe importance of rites of passage for boys and girlsBuilding community and mentorship for youthTechnology’s effect on mental health and connectionModeling repentance and humility in parentingEncouraging bravery and risk-taking in the physical worldTeaching children their identity in ChristPrioritizing joy and intimacy in marriageConnect with the Jay Holland:Let’s Parent on Purpose podcast:Things for Thursday Newsletter: text THINGS to 66866letsparentonpurpose.comFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After God - https://www.instagram.com/marriageaftergodInstagram: Unveiled Wife - https://www.instagram.com/unveiledwifeInstagram: Husband Revolution - https://www.instagram.com/husbandrevolutionSupport this podcast:Shop: https://shop.marriageaftergod.com/Become a patron: https://marriageaftergod.com/patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2025Keywords: marriage, parenting, youth ministry, rites of passage, manhood, womanhood, community, technology, anxiety, spiritualityOur Sponsors:* Check out Mr. Pen and use my code MAG10 for a great deal: https://mrpen.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/marriage-after-god-biblical-advice-practical-tips-and-inspiring-/donations

In today’s episode, Aaron Smith sits down with Ashton and Spencer Draper to share their inspiring journey of adoption, faith, and perseverance. Spencer and Ashton met through a mutual friend at a youth conference, drawn together by their shared love for Jesus and a heart for faith-filled living. Through the ups and downs of a difficult adoption journey and ongoing health challenges, they’ve learned to walk in grace, patience, and purpose—anchored by God’s faithfulness. Spencer works as a planner in manufacturing, while Ashton is a sign language interpreter and author of the book “Big Yellow House.” Whether playing games, watching movies, or raising their family, they’re committed to living faithfully and using their lives to serve Christ’s Kingdom.From their early years of marriage, to adopting their son Bismarck from Ghana, the Drapers open up about how God has worked through health challenges, biblical counseling, and their passion for adoption to strengthen their marriage and deepen their faith.Key Topics:The Drapers’ early marriage and decision to adoptAshton’s lifelong passion for adoption and its rootsThe challenges and blessings of adopting BismarckNavigating health struggles and their impact on marriageThe transformative power of biblical counselingEncouragement for couples considering adoptionResources Mentioned in This Episode:The Big Yellow House by Ashton Draper – Purchase on AmazonGobena Coffee – Adoption fundraising supportParenting by Paul TrippForgive by Tim KellerConnect with the Drapers:Follow Ashton Draper on FacebookPurchase The Big Yellow House https://a.co/d/4IEmWCdFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After God - https://www.instagram.com/marriageaftergodInstagram: Unveiled Wife - https://www.instagram.com/unveiledwifeInstagram: Husband Revolution - https://www.instagram.com/husbandrevolutionSupport this podcast:Shop: https://shop.marriageaftergod.com/Become a patron: https://marriageaftergod.com/patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2025Keywords: adoption, marriage, parenting, faith, family, communication, fundraising, counseling, health challenges, community supportOur Sponsors:* Check out Mr. Pen and use my code MAG10 for a great deal: https://mrpen.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/marriage-after-god-biblical-advice-practical-tips-and-inspiring-/donations