Calm Parenting Podcast Should You Celebrate Your Child Infuriating You (& Lying About It)? #532
Nov 2, 2025
Navigate the tricky waters of childhood misbehavior with a fresh perspective. Turning moments of lying into teaching opportunities can build honesty skills. Learn to celebrate impulsive decisions while guiding kids on reflection and negotiation. By remaining calm and engaged, parents can turn missteps into valuable life lessons. Discover practical steps like role-playing and allowing kids to resolve disputes for a comprehensive approach to parenting challenges. Embrace the journey of growth and learning in your family!
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The Jordan Trade Story
- Kirk recounts getting a school call about Casey trading Pokemon cards for Air Jordans to illustrate common parenting crises.
- The story shows how a typical incident can trigger parental anxiety and overreaction instead of teaching moments.
Mistakes Are Childhood Practice
- Kirk points out that kids' impulsive mistakes are part of childhood and low-stakes practice for life.
- Reframing misbehavior as normal learning reduces parental panic and opens space for teaching.
Slow Down Before Responding
- Slow your internal reaction before confronting your child by using calming routines like walking, sleeping on it, or exercise.
- Tell the other adults you'll call back after you've had time to connect with and calm down with your child.