How To Date

Taking it to the next level

Mar 10, 2025
Elizabeth and Mel dive into what it means to transition from casual to serious in relationships. They stress the importance of open conversations about exclusivity and personal desires, encouraging listeners to consider compatibility and past experiences. The duo explores how to navigate pressures around timing, particularly in the context of parenthood and relationships. They also discuss the significance of consent, handle jealousy constructively, and emphasize the need for intimate conversations to build trust. An insightful journey into deepening connections!
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ADVICE

Decide What You Really Want

  • Have a clear conversation about moving from casual dating to a serious relationship.
  • Ask yourself "what do I want?" before being swayed by others' expectations.
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Use Pebbles To Test The Waters

  • Expand your comfort zone with open-ended questions rather than forcing a confrontational talk.
  • Use small conversational "pebbles" to test readiness before having the exclusivity chat.
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Make Consent Normal

  • Normalise explicit, continuous consent in both sexual and relationship transitions.
  • Use direct language like "I'm comfortable with this" and ask "Are you still comfortable?" frequently.
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