How to Share Ideas with People Who Think Really Differently Than You
Sep 9, 2022
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John Kim (The Angry Therapist) and Noelle Cordeaux (CEO of Lumia) discuss the challenges of sharing ideas with people who think differently. They explore the impact of social media on connection and acceptance, emphasize the importance of empathy and effective communication in understanding different perspectives, and highlight the value of curiosity and non-judgmental approach in handling disagreements. They also delve into the power of personal storytelling in challenging preconceived notions and the role of coaching interventions in bridging divides.
Establish common bonds and approach conversations with empathy to bridge the gap with people who hold different beliefs.
Humanize oneself, find common ground, and show genuine interest to establish meaningful dialogues with individuals who hold opposing views.
Deep dives
Understanding the Importance of Common Bonds and Empathy
In this episode, the hosts discuss the significance of establishing common bonds and approaching conversations with empathy when engaging with individuals who hold different ideas. They highlight the evolutionary and cultural aspects that make people defensive about their beliefs and the value of recognizing the importance of those beliefs to another person's identity. By being curious and genuinely interested in understanding the other person's perspective, it becomes possible to bridge the gap and find areas of shared understanding and connection. This approach involves respecting individual experiences and using storytelling to invite others to draw their own conclusions and consider differing ideas. Planting seeds of understanding takes time and reinforcement, as seen in historical examples like the civil rights movement, and it is crucial to be patient and humble when navigating discussions with conflicting viewpoints.
The Power of Humanizing Yourself and Emphasizing Commonality
The hosts explain that when faced with individuals who hold different views, it is important to focus on humanizing oneself and finding common ground. By acknowledging the importance of the other person's beliefs and experiences, a foundation for meaningful dialogue can be established. They emphasize the value of first-hand storytelling and personal accounts to challenge preconceived notions and expand understanding. Through the lenses of positive psychology and sexological worldview theory, they delve into the significance of shared humanity and the potential for shifting perspectives by experiencing difference firsthand. They also discuss the importance of patience, kindness, and humility in bridging gaps and finding commonality, rather than resorting to judgment and criticism.
Tactically Approaching Difficult Conversations and the Power of Timing
In this episode, the hosts explore effective strategies for engaging in difficult conversations with individuals who hold opposing views. They stress the need for empathy and curiosity when confronted with differing opinions, aiming to understand the reasons behind the person's beliefs rather than attacking or categorizing them. By showing genuine interest and an openness to learn from one another, bonds of understanding can be established. The hosts also discuss the importance of timing in presenting ideas and the benefits of adopting a more collaborative and non-confrontational approach. They highlight the power of personal storytelling and shared experiences in challenging deep-seated beliefs and fostering acceptance. Finally, they remind listeners that change takes time and that planting seeds of understanding requires patience, reinforcement, and a commitment to shared humanity.
More and more often we are coming into contact with people who think differently and have other beliefs than us. How can we share ideas? How can we communicate effectively, lovingly and sanely?
John Kim (The Angry Therapist) and Noelle Cordeaux (CEO of Lumia) are teaming up to tackle the big world of positive psychology, meaning, and life coaching.
Everything Life Coaching is brought to you by Lumia-- at Lumia, we train and certify impact-driven coaches, making sure they’ve got all they need to build a business they love and transform lives, on their terms.
Music in this episode is by Cody Martin, used under a creative commons license. The Everything Life Coaching Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke with assistance from Rithu Jagannath.
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