The Joy in Letting Babies Move Freely (with Elsa Chahin)
Feb 11, 2025
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Elsa Chahin, President/CEO of Pikler/Loczy USA, is dedicated to promoting respectful relationships between children and adults, following the vision of Dr. Emmi Pikler. She shares the transformative benefits of allowing babies to develop motor skills naturally, fostering physical competence and emotional health. Elsa and Janet discuss how trusting this process can ease parenting, emphasizing the importance of 'yes spaces' for exploration. They also highlight the role of tummy time in self-awareness and encourage parents to learn directly from their child's unique journey.
Allowing babies to develop their motor skills naturally fosters emotional health, self-awareness, and a belief in their own capabilities.
Creating a safe 'yes space' for exploration enables children to learn independently, enhancing their confidence and love for learning.
Deep dives
The Philosophy of Natural Motor Development
Natural motor development emphasizes the idea that children can develop their motor skills independently without adult intervention. Dr. Emmy Pickler's research supports the notion that children have an innate motor program that guides them through various stages of mobility. This philosophy, which respects children's natural learning processes, underscores that adults should refrain from teaching skills that will evolve naturally given the right conditions. Encouraging a child's self-use of initiative fosters not only physical development but also emotional well-being and cognitive growth.
Creating Safe Spaces for Exploration
Providing a safe, stimulating environment—referred to as a 'yes space'—is crucial for promoting autonomous motor learning. This space allows children to explore freely and discover their capabilities without unnecessary restrictions or adult interference. It is important that adults maintain a supportive relationship with the child, ensuring that their basic needs are met, so the child feels confident to play and explore. This kind of environment fosters independence, creativity, and a lifelong love of learning.
Trusting the Child's Natural Timetable
Every child develops at their own pace, and there should be no pressure to meet developmental milestones prematurely. Parents often feel compelled to push their children to achieve certain skills, but it's essential to recognize and celebrate what each child can do at their own developmental stage. By observing and trusting their instincts, children can explore and achieve movements without feeling rushed. This relaxed approach not only reduces stress for parents but also nurtures the child's self-confidence and competence in navigating their world.
Embracing Resilience Through Experience
Allowing children to learn through trial and error builds resilience and self-awareness, which are critical to their development. By experiencing minor falls and challenges, children gain valuable skills in assessing their capabilities and understanding their body's limits. The discussion highlights how children who are allowed to move freely and face small risks are generally more comfortable taking risks and exploring their environment, all of which contribute to their emotional intelligence. Acknowledging and respecting each child’s unique journey helps cultivate a strong sense of self and prepares them for future challenges.
Elsa Chahin, President/CEO of Pikler/Loczy USA, has dedicated herself to carrying on the mission of visionary pediatrician and researcher Dr. Emmi Pikler, which is to promote "respectful and harmonious relationships between the youngest child and the adult." Like Janet, Elsa is also RIE Associate who studied under Pikler protege Magda Gerber. Elsa joins Janet in this episode to discuss the innumerable, proven benefits of allowing babies to develop their motor skills naturally. These benefits include physical competence, self-awareness, judicial risk-taking, inner-directed joyful learning, emotional health, and an enduring belief in themselves as capable people. As Elsa and Janet explain it, trusting our child's natural motor development can even make parenting easier, because all babies need from us are secure, intimate relationships and freedom to move.
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