How To Fail With Elizabeth Day How To Date: Taking it to the next level
Mar 10, 2025
Elizabeth and Mel dive deep into the nuances of modern relationships, discussing the leap from casual dating to commitment. They highlight the importance of open communication, navigating emotional baggage, and understanding deal breakers. The conversation touches on the significance of consent, addressing jealousy, and balancing personal desires with relationship dynamics. Humor and self-discovery play crucial roles as they provide practical advice for building strong, lasting connections.
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Use Gentle Questions To Test Pace
- Expand your comfort zone by asking gentle, open-ended questions about the relationship rather than jumping into anxiety.
- Use humour to call out awkwardness and test whether your partner is receptive before having the big chat.
Assess Fit, Don't Prove Yourself
- Treat early dating like dogs sniffing each other: you're assessing fit, not proving your worth.
- Ask repeatedly, 'Does this fit me?' to keep focus on your needs rather than pleasing the other person.
Decide What You Actually Want First
- Before declaring commitment, clarify what you personally want: exclusivity, a formal partner label, or another arrangement.
- Journal, talk to friends, or write a letter to identify your relationship goals before the conversation.